Some women are afraid of motherhood. Why shouldn’t they? Motherhood is a very big responsibility. This is not something you can just try and stop when you feel that you are not getting better. If only there are trials in this field, there wouldn’t be children growing up without good manners. If motherhood can be followed exactly how it is written in a manual, there wouldn’t be any child on the street having a bleak future. In a relationship, there are two involved individuals but when it comes to nurturing a child, a mother plays the bigger role.
Usually, fathers provide, moms mold their children. Even with a partner, a woman will be fearing motherhood because there is so much to expect and you cannot be sure you can absolutely nail the job. It is sometimes overwhelming, having to do everything. Mothers do not just cook food, shop, do laundry, iron clothes, feed children, dress them up, bring them to school and help them with their homework. Mothers also shift into their biggest fan when they are about to perform on stage.
They become the best cheerleader when their boy is about to shoot the ball or make a goal. Mothers also turn into a superhero when they have constant nightmares and they are afraid to close their eyes because they fear they might see the monster once again. With a mother’s soothing voice, everything in their make-believe world becomes exactly what mom says it is. Not all women have the skill to do all these and more. That is why some women fear becoming a mother. Motherhood is a gift, but it is also a capability not many acquire. How a child emerges in the future is mostly the work of a mother. If a child grows up whole, loved and optimistic with life, that woman is indeed prepared with the task given to her.
When it comes to families, mothers are the favorite among all the members. Whether this mother is strict and gives all the “NO’s” in your home, she is still the only person everyone runs to when something goes wrong. Being a mother is a very tricky responsibility. You need to be strong yet you need to be sensitive to their needs and emotions. Motherhood is not just a simple dare which you have to take but then give up in the mid-part because the dare is just too much.
There are so many things you need to take care of when you are a mother. If you have more than one child, the responsibilities doubles. A lot of women dreams of being a mother, while some are suddenly made one though they are not ready. The responsibilities of motherhood starts from the day they they become pregnant. Pregnancy is a very complicated and risky situation. Physically, a woman’s body change and everything else changes as well. There may be clinics to prepare them but when the day comes their baby comes out, nobody can prepare them with the pain they are about to experience.
Nine months of carrying a child inside their body is already a very uncomfortable state to be in. When the child decides to come out, it is literally the most painful thing a person can experience. It is like being ripped into two. But all the pain is nothing once you see the child that came from you. As the child grows up, mom is always the person most searched for. Without mom, the house is in danger of being burned down. Women these days have their careers as well, just like men, but their roles as a mother will never be something men can fill in, no matter what life time it is.