My Mother, My Angel

cute-mother-and-baby-bonding-17Some women are afraid of motherhood. Why shouldn’t they? Motherhood is a very big responsibility. This is not something you can just try and stop when you feel that you are not getting better. If only there are trials in this field, there wouldn’t be children growing up without good manners. If motherhood can be followed exactly how it is written in a manual, there wouldn’t be any child on the street having a bleak future. In a relationship, there are two involved individuals but when it comes to nurturing a child, a mother plays the bigger role.

Usually, fathers provide, moms mold their children. Even with a partner, a woman will be fearing motherhood because there is so much to expect and you cannot be sure you can absolutely nail the job. It is sometimes overwhelming, having to do everything. Mothers do not just cook food, shop, do laundry, iron clothes, feed children, dress them up, bring them to school and help them with their homework. Mothers also shift into their biggest fan when they are about to perform on stage.

mother-03They become the best cheerleader when their boy is about to shoot the ball or make a goal. Mothers also turn into a superhero when they have constant nightmares and they are afraid to close their eyes because they fear they might see the monster once again. With a mother’s soothing voice, everything in their make-believe world becomes exactly what mom says it is. Not all women have the skill to do all these and more. That is why some women fear becoming a mother. Motherhood is a gift, but it is also a capability not many acquire. How a child emerges in the future is mostly the work of a mother. If a child grows up whole, loved and optimistic with life, that woman is indeed prepared with the task given to her.